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Why do you keep looking at "partying" as her issue and not yours? I see that's the biggest concern you have is if, or when she slips back.
IMO, her slipping back to partying only hurts you and your ownership of her. Perhaps, her history bothers you so much because her history is a constant reminder that if you ever get boring, if you ever get complacent, or if ever she finds you as "not enough", her history demonstrates that she is more than capable of finding her own fun.
I mean, right now things are fine and dandy because life with you is much better than a life of party. Congratulations, but perhaps only for now.
You claim don't want her slipping back to her old ways, or unable to keep her promises to you, and you guise it under the pretense that these concerns are for her own sake, but could it be that, your concerns are stemming from the possibility that one day, she may think a life of party is much better than a life with you?
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