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Originally Posted by Ulic Qel-Droma
but they do have a clue.
it's not like they up and vanished from bed.
they were on a plane... it is plane related. any of those conspiracies, any theories of crashes. pick and choose the story. it doesn't matter... they're in a plane related death. they exist no more and their bodies have started their journey back to the earth from which it came.
i don't think it really matters.
it's like if a small boat vanished in the high seas after a big thunder storm. it PROBABLY capsized, and they are most likely dead. but you'll never find the bodies. and you'll never truly know. but you don't need to. you know they're dead. once you accept that fact it's all the same. the next step is to choose how fast you want to get over it. those people that want their weird version of closure are just grasping on to any element of their loved ones they can. if they had found solid evidence of a crash from the beginning, they still wouldn't feel any better.
it's just an excuse to keep wallowing in sadness for the sake of not letting go of something they are too attached to. even if it is a loved one.
demanding the government and public that they want closure is just absurd. that's something they should have to deal with themselves. this isn't the last person they'll know that will die from unwanted reasons.
they can mourn, they can feel sad. but i don't condone the action of demanding others to seek their closure for them. closure is completely up to the self. the external world should have no bearing on it.
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all i'd say is that i'd just want to know. that would be closure to me.
we all know they're dead. Wouldn't you at least want to put it to bed by knowing, definitely, what happened? I wouldn't be at 'rest' until I knew