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well obviously from this discussion, it's obvious no one will find closure from anything.
cuz like honderacer hinted.... you guys keep refuting.
there is no such thing as closure.
they can find more shit. and find bodies. and find whatever. it wont bring closure.
that is my point.
all the shit u guys keep saying. is just delusional words trying to capture some feeling that you WILL NOT GET.
that's my point.
not to do with my analogies. or specifics or whatever.
there IS no closure.
doesn't matter if i don't need it.
they don't need it either. and the sooner they realise that, the better off they'll be.
hondaracer gets it. the rest are still walking in circles trying to satisfy something that can't be satisfied.
i don't know how much clearer it can be.
the closure you guys imagine, simply, does not... exist.
they will find reasons or make up reasons eventually... what? the families will finally go "oh he can rest in peace" "i feel better".
NO.
they'll just keep going "i wish the plane didnt go down" "i wonder what it would be like if he were still around".
it's just another step to another type of attachment and clinging onto something that is GONE.
the concept is simple. if something is gone, it is gone. no amount of info will give you closure. period.
it's that simple.
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