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Originally Posted by underscore
they want to know where the hell their loved ones went.
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they are somewhere here on earth. is that not a good enough answer. they are DEAD somewhere here on earth.
not dead in some far off galaxy lost in space. they're here, on this little tiny planet. decaying somewhere. like the way EVERYONE ELSE has died in all of history. clear? happy?
what? okok.. they're in a little crevas 1000m under the sea, 80% decomposed and fish nipping at their bodies.
oookook they were executed and dumped at some site and buried. and they're decayed and birds are picking at their bodies.
okkko.. they crashed and they burnt up.
they're here. ok. they're dead.
the only concern should be why the aircraft disappeared and how to stop it from happening to others.
the ones that have suffered this accident... that was their destiny. and hopefully we can learn from it.
greiving, and attachment to their bodies. and those things are.... yeah.. perhaps to ME it's not necessary.
but to the ones who keep greiving, i'm telling you. it's not necessary, and you will be as happy as the ones that have already started to move on.
it's SIMPLE as that.
5 years from now if any of these people still cant get over it, and are seeing psychiatrists and therapists and all that... you think their going to instruct them to grieve?
no they're gona tell them to shut the fuck up and get over it (in the nicest and professional way possible).
so you can shut the fuck up and get over it NOW... or you can shut the fuck up and get over it years from now.
it's your choice. i have laid out the options. and i have laid out the path that will bring you least suffering and guilt and pain.
it's up to you which one you wanna pick. but anyone with any amount of willpower will pick the obvious route.
obviously moving on takes time. but the sooner you start the path, the sooner you'll feel better. that's all im sayng.
and it seems like you guys are too narrow sighted to see that.
still digging holes in the ground looking for closure. keep digging. have fun.
how many of you have had loved ones that died?
how many of you have had the thought that "i wish i spent more time with them when they were alive"?
a lot of us. almost all of us.
now the question is. when they were alive, you didn't care to see them or spend that time with them. it's only after they're dead you throw some overt form of attachment that you didn't have before. why?
it's the same shit. you wish you had more time with them. you wish you knew why. you wish this you wish that. but at the end of the day.. or year or decade.. whenever you get over it... you move on. because you realise you can't fucking change the past. no amount of info matters. nothing matters. only forward. your life and the people around you that are still alive and ticking.
they're dead. they're off in whatever land you believe in. in the dirt. in the afterlife. whichever. it doesn't matter. it's out of your control. what's in your control is your own willpower. unless you have none. then i guess you are excused to lead a miserable life hah.