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Originally Posted by 4444
those that want closure don't get closure from seeing that the plane went down - WE KNOW THAT ALREADY. it's the why, not the gruesome details, but the story behind it.
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you REALLY think they're gonna feel happier? you REALLY think they'll get closure from that?
like i said, the story is not going to be happy.
"everyone got drunk, and had a fun time, so much so they forgot they were in the air and the plane crashed and they all died happily ever after".
no... it will be more like... the plane had some problem, they got hijacked, etc. everyone was probably pissing their pants. wishing this wishing that. their life flashing before their eyes. boom. most of them are dead. the unfortunate ones that are still conscious will be surrounded by dead people and body parts, and slowly pulled down to the sea. drowning. the ones that survived that... will have frozen to death, or drowned to death.
is that the story that will give them closure?
what exactly are you guys talking about?
what details are going to give them SATISFACTION?
except none of you, except a few, realise, that actually, that's not going to give you any closure.
you can ask anyone that's loved a close one to an accident. and then found out the details after.
you can ask them... did that suddenly make them feel better? make them have a new outlook in life? the sun suddenly shines brighter?
c'mon guys get real. they should take their respective time to grieve. and let go. and take care of the ones that are still around them.
closure is a word created for those individuals unable to cope with any type of relationship ending.
seeking closure is chasing your tail. chase away.
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Originally Posted by Hondaracer
Gotta agree with ulic
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thank you.
i only say this cuz i learn from experience. lost many, lots of down times. each time each down time has become shorter and shorter, because i realise seeking closure is just bullshit.
it's like getting dumped. you feel like shit, but you move on. waddling in your own filth of negative emotions seeking some reprisal against the lack of information or WHY WHY WHY... will NEVER fucking help. i can guarantee you that.
for those of you that are religious, you'll see them when you're dead.
for those of you that are not, your body will join them in the dirt when you die too.
either way, in the short short ~90 years you'll live, you should try to be happy. time is nothing. you will join them for all of eternity sooner than you want.