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yeah i know they are different.
i know some would rather not know. and some wanna know.
I'm just saying. yes, if u wanna know, and u know, you will get satisfied because you KNOW... but you wont find closure there. you wont feel better.
no one has ever found closure that way dude.
ask any psychiatrist, psychologist, or counselor that look over people that have been looking for closure for years and years and years.
some people don't wanna smoke, some people smoke. they both get satisfaction out of what they do.
all im saying is smoking is unhealthy, and you ain't gonna live longer.
the smokers will disagree. and keep smoking. but the fact is, they're going to be unhealthier.
that's all im saying.
grieving, and seeking closure that doesn't exist, will not give them what they are seeking.
if you seek the details for the sake of details. ok great. you will find some satisfaction in the answer.
but if you are seeking a better emotion because you lost a loved one, that action will not make you any happier. they'll seek something else after.
people are only hating because i'm being very frank about this. because i'm basically bashing victims. but really i'm not.
if you took a survey of the victims... the ones that are happier have already started to move on. and the ones still in gut wrenching emotional pain are the ones seeking more closure.
MORE. more... there can never be enough.
they find out why the plane went down, the details. great. closure? NO.
now they'll want to take justice into their own hands. suing airliners. "outraged" at how something like this could happen. they'll direct their emotion somewhere else when you give them their "closure", cuz really, their emotions haven't been tamed, they'll just direct it elsewhere.
if you guys can't see that. then you guys are truly blinded by emotions.
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