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Ulic Qel-Droma · 04-03-2014, 11:43 AM

and ill get it through your thick skull. that info will not make them feel better overall.
it will be some temporary feeling of satisfaction. like answering a math question. yes, you have the answer... now what?
they still have to "seek closure".

the point of this is SEEKING CLOSURE. and me saying that info will NOT help.

and you just keep saying it will. it will. it will. give them the info. it will give them closure.

i am saying give them the info. but that is not related to closure. it will just satisfy them, the same way it will satisfy us. it will satisfy human curiosity.

but it will not help them get over the attachment of a loved one.

YOU UNDERSTAND?

when in history has ANYONE had closure, because they heard a coroner's report?
it doesn't help them get over the death. it only satisfies the story because the story has blank lines.

now the story is complete. you can fully absorb it.

it's like reading a story about your loved one. and there's lots of blank spaces in the book.
sure, after filling in the blanks you go "YES" i can read the story.

but when you get to the end and realise the end is still shitty. you really get "over" them?
no. you just understand the story better.

the only time u get over them is when you STOP picking up that book and trying to fill in the blanks or reading it over and over and over again.
you read it once if you wish, and you put it away, forever. then you will seek the feeling you want.

the term "forgive and forget" comes to mind. forgive god, forgive the terrorists, forgive the airliner, forgive whoever. and forget. move on. you'll only feel happier when you put it in the back of your mind and start to fill your mind with new memories.

how can none of you guys realise this is the actual path that helps?

are any of you still seeking closure from some distant broken relationship? jeez.

as for thes ones that want to keep reading the book. ok go ahead and do whatever the fuck you want. just don't cry to everyone about it. keep that shit to yourself. or your psychiatrist. lol.

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Ulic Qel-Droma I keep RS good Join Date: May 2001 Location: Cosmos Posts: 28,736 Thanked 5,599 Times in 1,524 Posts Failed 889 Times in 301 Posts	and ill get it through your thick skull. that info will not make them feel better overall. it will be some temporary feeling of satisfaction. like answering a math question. yes, you have the answer... now what? they still have to "seek closure". the point of this is SEEKING CLOSURE. and me saying that info will NOT help. and you just keep saying it will. it will. it will. give them the info. it will give them closure. i am saying give them the info. but that is not related to closure. it will just satisfy them, the same way it will satisfy us. it will satisfy human curiosity. but it will not help them get over the attachment of a loved one. YOU UNDERSTAND? when in history has ANYONE had closure, because they heard a coroner's report? it doesn't help them get over the death. it only satisfies the story because the story has blank lines. now the story is complete. you can fully absorb it. it's like reading a story about your loved one. and there's lots of blank spaces in the book. sure, after filling in the blanks you go "YES" i can read the story. but when you get to the end and realise the end is still shitty. you really get "over" them? no. you just understand the story better. the only time u get over them is when you STOP picking up that book and trying to fill in the blanks or reading it over and over and over again. you read it once if you wish, and you put it away, forever. then you will seek the feeling you want. the term "forgive and forget" comes to mind. forgive god, forgive the terrorists, forgive the airliner, forgive whoever. and forget. move on. you'll only feel happier when you put it in the back of your mind and start to fill your mind with new memories. how can none of you guys realise this is the actual path that helps? are any of you still seeking closure from some distant broken relationship? jeez. as for thes ones that want to keep reading the book. ok go ahead and do whatever the fuck you want. just don't cry to everyone about it. keep that shit to yourself. or your psychiatrist. lol. Last edited by Ulic Qel-Droma; 04-03-2014 at 11:50 AM.