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not knowing wont magically make you feel better about it... unless you want it to.
knowing isn't magically going to make you feel better about it either.
"why did the electrical problem happen?"
"why'd they hijack THAT plane"
"what if my loved one didnt get on that plane?"
"what if i talked them out of taking that trip"
"aw man i was going to tell them to book another flight"
you see. thoughts will always come up. that's my point.
given the choice people will always wanna know.
but that's a different topic.
we're talking about how to get OVER the event. not how to get more involved.
the only way you get over shit, is to distance yourself from it. not go further towards it.
you say pick your poison.
i say fuck the poison and walk away.
but obviously a weak emotional addict will always choose the poison. what can you do. you can only inform them.
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