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@ ulic...
have you ever dealt with a close death?
thinking about the posts above has encouraged me to enlighten you.
when i was 17 (6 years ago) i came home one day to my dad who had hung himself in the hallway of the front door. its pretty fucked up for a 17 year old to see his dad chillin there like that but i reached my closure quickly because i knew what happened. not just because me and my brother had to take him down.
he left a letter for us. it described why he had done what he had and that he cared for us regardless but his time has ended for him.
to him. it was justified and i had a hard time after that. but knowing it was his choice brought me closure. to the point im completely comfortable talking about it because death is part of life.
BUT
if my dad just disappeared and i was told he was dead with little/no information of why.. i would spend a lot of time wondering.. why.. where.. how..is he suffering? can i do anything.. you know because im a human and not some fucking animal.
i would be pretty disappointed if i disappeared and people were so quick to write me off as dead.
who is to say the plane didnt go down close to some remote island and there are a handful of survivors? sure that may be 0.0001 % but to those family members thats enough.
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