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i'm sure a lot of detectives are like that. you have no idea how cynical cops are.
as for snails.
yes eliminating the 0.00001% .... but that's absurd.
when you conduct studies or experiments or execute strategies, whether lives depend on it or not (war, etc)... you don't count the 0.0001%
because those drag you down. they're a waste of time. the likely hood of that happening is well 0.0001%.... u understand?
just like they're not going to bother doing investigations on aliens abducting the airplane, or blackholes, or whatever. yes there is a 0.000001% those may happen too!!!
but you don't put effort into that, cuz there's situations with MUCH higher %. like the plane crashed and everything is lost at sea.
again, im not saying "they up and vanished and dead" and thats good enough.
im saying "they were on a plane that most likely crashed in the high seas".
you think finding the plane is closure... but what if they don't find it?
sorry to bring up your father, but... what if he decided to do what he did elsewhere, and he didnt leave you a letter? say he just up and vanished.
would you still be grieving now? what about 5 years from now? 10?
when does it end? when will you accept? never? that CANT be right...
don't you think if you choose to accept all outcomes before they happen... your life would be a lot better regardless of what they find?
say you want to find the details (we all would)... but you also accept there is a good chance they will never find anything... wouldn't your life IMMEDIATELY start to be better?
if you accept both results... they may find something, and they might not. when the results come forth (which is out of your control, you aren't an investigator or a major player in this incident), great. that is what part of you had hoped for.
but what if it never comes? shouldn't you cover your own ass and cover all results?
im gonna use an example, and i don't want you to think im belittling your dad. but it's an example ppl can relate to.
when you go up to a girl and you ask her out. the good players hope she says yes, but are prepared for rejection. and when they get rejected, it's shitty, but it's OKAY, they move on.
you guys kinda get what i mean?
you shouldn't be attached to any one outcome. ESPECIALLY when it is out of your control. no amount of willing, and wishing will change the outcome. like i said, you're not the investigator. you're not the one putting up cash for the planes and boats to fly and sail around looking. you're just an observer. it's like watching a movie. whatever outcome happens, you accept it and you move on.
i'm not telling people to give up. or accept whatever happens to them.
if you are trying your best to achieve a goal, while you are trying, you don't give up. you try to do your best. but if you do your best, and you fail, and there's no more tries left... you accept the result. because that is the HARD result which you have no control over anymore. that scenario/event is OVER. acceptance of the result is KEY. otherwise you'll let it drag your life down... for all of eternity through the afterlife if you are religious.
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