@ ulic
we are very good at arguing, but we both have our points and yes i agree with some of them. but we will end up repeating the same stuff over and over so too save the websites bandwidth ill just chalk my final comment up to Markymarks's comment
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Like snails already said, telling someone to move on and actually moving on are not the same. You can't force yourself to just get over something. You can keep busy, try to find acceptance of the situation, but if you still have that shitty feeling in your gut what do you do then?
I'm a firm believer that time heals things better then anything else. How much time that is differs for everyone. Your logic that they need to just move on and they'll feel better is flawed, because you can't force something like that.
In your scenario you're pretty much telling a guy with a fucked up spinal cord to just get up and walk.
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