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Originally Posted by MarkyMark
In your scenario you're pretty much telling a guy with a fucked up spinal cord to just get up and walk.
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no, i'm telling the guy with the spinal cord injury to stop being depressed about losing his ability to walk or whatever else he lost and accept and move on.
if there will ever be a medical fix for it, it will come and you hoping and wishing won't make it come faster. the day it comes will be a nice surprise. and if it doesn't come, it's okay too, cuz you've already accepted your accident and you know you can't go back in time and fix it. there's only one direction. forward.
you accept what has happened and you move forward cuz you cant possibly change it.
if the spinal cord injury say u just get knocked out and u wake up a few days later in the hospital and no one knows what happened. they just found you with a broken neck. yeah.. i would tell him to man the fuck up and deal with it. cuz being a cry baby ain't gonna fix your spinal cord or help your mental health. knowing what happened wont fix your spinal cord. and you'll probably just develop a hate for whoever did it to you. and a personal revenge is a lot harder to get over than an external loss.
but being okay with it and moving forward, you'll be able to accomplish a lot more and be a lot happier in life.
I am sure everyone would agree with me here.
if not. well, just go visit GF strong and see how the psychologists deal with the spinal cord injury patients there.
Like i said, any cognative/psychologoical therapist will say everything i have said in this thread, but in a much more kinder and professional way tailored to the victim.
i ain't tailoring what i say to the victim. i'm saying it bluntly.