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some of you thick headed dumb fucks just have to think of it this way:
say your best buddy's mom was on that plane.
your buddy comes up to you one day and tells you he doesn't know how to deal with it anymore. he cant take his mind off of it. he's feeling like shit and he doesn't know... he just doesn't know what to do... he's lost.. he's in despair.
what would you tell him?
"oohhhh don't worry they'll find them, you'll get closure"
"keep seekin that closure, it'll come bro"
BULL FUCKING SHIT. you guys are fucking assholes if you encourage that type of thinking!
you would be more like:
"time will heal it man"
in combination with something like:
"well perhaps you should consider a different perspective and approach to thinking... i mean, what if they never find out? will you let this drag you down for the rest of your life? i think perhaps regardless of whether they find out or not, you should start to work on your path to acceptance of the current situation... you can still hope for the best, but keep that on the back burner... don't cling onto that hope. move forward man, your friends and other loved ones are around you to support you. you can do it!"
the you give him a bro hug or a pat on the back. and in time he will forget about it and move on the best he can, by accepting. or he'll cling on forever and lead a miserable life. the choice is still up to him.
SO? which friend are you?
"keep lookin for dat closure brooooo, here i made a map, if you follow the dots you'll find that closure at the X. derp derp. if u dig deep enough, eternal happiness will be waiting there too~~~"
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