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Originally Posted by Hondaracer
It's like those people who were "abused" by an uncle, relative, etc to carrying degrees
Now at 21 their complete life is literally ruined, they're living on the streets and they are a drain on society
At some point you have to get over it
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EXACTLY.
can one really move on without closure? or have closure without moving on?
I mean PROPERLY moving on. not moving on and feeling shitty and just forcing yourself to get up everyday but still feeling doom and gloom.
like to become a "proper" "functioning" "happy" person simply requires acceptance of whatever situation is pulling your emotions down. am i not right?
as for its only been a month... yeah true. a month isn't long. but like i said, the sooner the people know this info, the sooner they can move on.
they only need to hear it. the decision is still up to them like i said. perhaps some have never even thought of it this way, and they choose to move on 1 month or even 1 week after.
you guys are all defending the ones who need more time...
but what about the ones who don't? suddenly cuz the "stronger willed" ones don't need any advice or support?
there's always two sides. the info just has to be out there. they just have to hear it, what they do with it is up to them.
but AWARENESS of TRUTH is important.
I mean, for someone in despair, but is a logical person, but still emotionally distressed. wouldn't it bring some form of comfort when at night they're tossing and turning in bed, wondering what happened... but rather than just having nothing to calm them, they can at least think of one thing "i can accept it and move on... looking towards a brighter future, the past is the past"
i duno about you guys, but some people will find comfort in that, rather than losing their minds.
but for the ones that WANNA lose their minds and WANNA toss and turn and feel like shit, go ahead. i wont stop them from thinking negative thoughts and pulling themselves down. but if they ever ask for help from the world, the world ain't gonna tell them what they wanna hear.
like hondaracer says, at some point in your life, youre gonna have to accept that the world did not turn out the way you want. or you don't... but our goal here is to remove negative emotions and try to attain satisfaction in life right?
RIGHT?
that IS the point of this discussion right?
and anyone with half a brain would know to maximize and focus on the 99.999% chance, not the 0.001%.
i mean, how many of you go in the the casino and put all your money on one number in roulette and get pissed off when you don't win?
this is the exact same thing.
chances are, you know, it's NOT gonna land on your number. you don't put hope into those things. it'll only drag you down.
anyway, yeah, different strokes for different folks. but if you lead your path and it aint working out, and you still feel like shit, it's probably cuz the path you thought would work, actually doesn't. and like MANY things in life that have to do with emotions... you usually have to do the opposite of what you wanna do. you have to do everything your mind is telling you not to do.