Quote:
Originally Posted by twitchyzero
everyone takes loss or being dealt a shitty hand in life differently
some will take it as motivation to make the best of what they have or make that terrible experience and convert it to something which will make them stronger
while others will sulk and live miserably for the rest of their lives turning to alcohol and drugs for escape
|
Quote:
Originally Posted by underscore
The point is that everyone handles things differently. Sweet fucking jesus what a concept.
|
no it's not a crazy concept.
like twitchy just said.
WHILE OTHERS WILL SULK AND LIVE MISERABLY AND TURN TO DRUGS.
YEAH. so those ppl just have NO hope at all right? cuz they can NEVER let go so they should just be allowed to live their life in their delusional despair to find closure?
FUCK THAT man.
you can FIX them. cognitive behavioural therapy is just one of the many things. lots of shit.
you're telling me the people that can't handle it, should just be left to fucking be miserable cuz their values are so fucked up and skewed and holding them down, but their values are their values therefore they're right?
fuck man.
we're ONLY focusing on the ones that are gonna sulk forever.
everyone else will move on eventually and that's fine. who cares about them. they're GONNA move on now, or later, so its okay. sooner the better.
but the ones who CANT, who REFUSE TO LET GO. those are the ones we are talking about. UNDERSTAND?