[Ulic Qel-Droma]

and if you get dumped by a gf you loved so much you were gonna marry, and your bros take you out clubbing, and you meet a girl... if you tell her you just got dumped last week, does she look like you're crazy?

what if your feelings just fucking change regardless of whether you want it or not?
you'd probably just go with the flow, and not tell them what happened and see what happens.

ones a death, and ones someone leaving you. but is it not both a person leaving you, and you probably never seeing the again? why would u treat it any differently? (in terms of wanting to get over them). youre not a criminal investigator, youre not out to prosecute or point fingers at anyone.

and as a normal civilian, you have no right to point fingers at anyone demanding things such as closure, from people who are already trying to find the plane, but you're fucking rushing them and pointing fingers at them like it's their god damn fault and that it's their fucking responsibility to find it asap FOR THEM.

do you have some cosmic obligation to have to grieve for those who have died?

perhaps only if you truly believe death is the end all of existence.



just cuz you think it's insane, doesn't mean it's wrong and doesn't mean some people arent capable of this.

the only difference between you and them is you choose to want to grieve and value grieving more than them. and obviously one that values grieving and think's its normal to have to grieve, will ultimately feel more depressed. and isn't being depressed the thing we're trying to GET OUT OF?


“Visākhā, those who have a hundred dear ones have a hundred sufferings. Those who have ninety dear ones have ninety sufferings. Those who have one dear one have one suffering. Those who have no dear ones have no sufferings. They are free from sorrow, free from stain, free from lamentation, I tell you.”

you might not like that, but truth is in that quote.

love, is different from attachment.
you can love, and not be attached.

you can also hate, and be attached.

the whole point of this is attachment.

I don't usually quote buddhists, but it is universally known that they are the masters of emotion and masters of their own destinies. they feel whatever they want to feel, by changing themselves. and that's a lesson that the world can learn.

you don't have to agree with their crazy shit like living in poverty and only eating what is given to you. but there's an aspect of how they deal with shit, which is esoteric. and we can all agree, they know what they're talking about when it comes to this shit. they aint no dumbasses that's for sure.

let's not use buddhists.

any religion. you go to the religious figurehead at your temple/church. they will say the same things.

if you're not religious, and you go to a doctor, they will say the same thing.

so really. who are the ones that think like you? the ones that want to stay depressed. the ones that WANT to feel fucked up.
you cant want to feel fucked up and want to feel better at the same time bro. you will just be in a state of confusion till you pick one. and i can tell you right now dude. thinking you have a duty to grieve, will make you feel fucked up.