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Originally Posted by reamemiya
I'm assuming when people say closure, that means to move on.
I think what Ulic is trying to say is, don't put the responsibility of being able to move on, from any incident, in other people's hands.
Only that person has the power or responsibility to decide when they are ready to move on. If that person requires external force (evidence, prove, etc.), what if those things never show up?
When someone realizes that they may never find out what happened, they will realize the power to move on have or have a closure ultimately have always been in their hands.
You can be sad as long as you want, but don't put the blame on others for not being able to move on.
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very well summarized. lol
i think the main issue is that the opposing forces of this debate cannot understand the fact that they may never show up, and are willing to bank their entire emotional energy on the chance that things will turn out the way they want it to be.
I'm saying cover your asses. you have to accept all ultimate outcomes.
anyway reamemiya said it good.