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Originally Posted by reamemiya
I'm assuming when people say closure, that means to move on.
I think what Ulic is trying to say is, don't put the responsibility of being able to move on, from any incident, in other people's hands.
Only that person has the power or responsibility to decide when they are ready to move on. If that person requires external force (evidence, prove, etc.), what if those things never show up?
When someone realizes that they may never find out what happened, they will realize the power to move on have or have a closure ultimately have always been in their hands.
You can be sad as long as you want, but don't put the blame on others for not being able to move on.
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I get that, but wanting answers within a couple of weeks of a tragedy happening, and still clinging to wanting those answers ten years later are not the same thing. The concept that time means nothing is ludicrous. Sorry but Ulic makes it seem like moving on a day after a tragedy or years later is just as easy, but it's not.
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