[Gregboat]

My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost 8 months. About a year before we started dating, she had a long distance "thing" with a guy she had only met in person a few times. It wasn't necessarily dating, but it was definitely more than friends. This thing lasted about two months before the guy on New years eve sent her a text telling her he wasn't into her. About a year before that "thing" she was dating another guy for a few months, when one of her closest friends ( a guy ) kissed her as a "joke" to try to make her feel uncomfortable. She ended the relationship she was in because she was overcome with guilt.

The two people she continues to communicate with the most are the long distance guy and the "joke" kiss guy. When ive talked to her about it, she says she only sees them as friends. I feel bad because I feel like I don't trust her when it comes to this. But she constantly communicates with these two guys.

Its also ironic because she got really jealous of my relationship with one of my closest friends who's a female. It feels like a massive double standard to me, because in the four years of my friendship we've always been friends and nothing else, yet this bothers my gf. But she cant understand how constant communication with two people from her past that are the opposite sex and were definitely not just friends bothers me.

I never really had a big problem with it, until about 3 months into our relationship my gf and I had a very personal discussion, and a week later it came out that she had shared the whole thing with long distance guy. And I was choked.

Thank you to anybody that takes all the time to read this.
I would really appreciate opinions/advice.
Thanks