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Noir · 05-26-2014, 04:27 PM

I think the first 2 posts already covered your primary question really well, so I'll address the minor thing:

30 is sooooo not past your "dating" prime. It only feels that way because you've been with the same guy for 10 years and have never felt the need to "peacock" yourself for the last 10 years. You're just rusty, really really really rusty; but that's so easy to fix - especially for girls.

If you do come to the conclusion that he IS stringing you along and you decide to explore your options and see if there's a better candidate who's life goals are parrallel to yours, you just gotta whore yourself out (mostly figuratively speaking).

Have fun, date younger - date older. Cheat if you have to (or if that's too much, just test the waters). What's holding you back is that you're guilty of being in a certain comfort zone as well. You're afraid to leave him that's why you hesitate to see if there's something else out there; and in his case, why would he marry you? He's got you in perfectly in his comfort zone and he feels ABSOLUTELY ZERO THREAT from any other guys, or that you will leave him in general.

05-26-2014, 04:27 PM	#5
Noir Hypa owned my ass at least once Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Japan Posts: 6,745 Thanked 1,314 Times in 540 Posts Failed 124 Times in 79 Posts	I think the first 2 posts already covered your primary question really well, so I'll address the minor thing: 30 is sooooo not past your "dating" prime. It only feels that way because you've been with the same guy for 10 years and have never felt the need to "peacock" yourself for the last 10 years. You're just rusty, really really really rusty; but that's so easy to fix - especially for girls. If you do come to the conclusion that he IS stringing you along and you decide to explore your options and see if there's a better candidate who's life goals are parrallel to yours, you just gotta whore yourself out (mostly figuratively speaking). Have fun, date younger - date older. Cheat if you have to (or if that's too much, just test the waters). What's holding you back is that you're guilty of being in a certain comfort zone as well. You're afraid to leave him that's why you hesitate to see if there's something else out there; and in his case, why would he marry you? He's got you in perfectly in his comfort zone and he feels ABSOLUTELY ZERO THREAT from any other guys, or that you will leave him in general. Last edited by Noir; 05-26-2014 at 04:34 PM.