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I think you really need to ask yourself what's best for you, what you want, what your timeline is, and then tell your partner. Either he's up for it, or he's not. If he's pussyfooting around answers and can't give you a straight answer that satisfies you, tell him you're not happy and what it is you need. 30 is not past your prime, honestly you may find that dating in your 30's is better, because there may be more people who are ready to settle down and want the same things as you. Also, don't be afraid to date younger, it's awesome. I understand the pressure of being a 30-something woman and getting dicked around isn't as cute as it was in your 20's. You've got to lay it out there and make sure you're on the same page. After 10 years, you should figure out if you want the same things and if your timelines match up. It's all about priorities. His priorities are his job and there are no guarantees he's ever going to make enough to make him happy. What are your priorities?
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