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Old 05-26-2014, 09:50 PM   #11
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65k or 100k doesn't make a difference. Does it matter if you two are married? not really. Would moving in TOGETHER and getting a place together where you fork out 20k and he forks out 20k and buying a place... maybe. why do you want to get married? what's in it to get married? NOTHING. Is it the meaning, is it the fact you want to be a wife. WHY do you want to gt married.

focus less on the wedding, focus on if this guy will be able to go thru the thick and thin.

3 things i would consider
1) kids. if he says fuck all at 38 - 45...and you want kids then you need to leave
2) moving in. i would lay the question flat out of discussion. talk about it seriously and then pull the plug. Either you move towards a goal or you don't.
3) age. you're 30. either GTFO or stay .... your time is running out.
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