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Originally Posted by Tapioca
I think the author makes an erroneous assumption that all women want a relationship all of the time, when in fact, they sometimes just want to date, be wined and dined, and sleep with a guy because it makes them feel good (if just temporarily).
But, he is right in that men do need to man up and tell women what they want (whether it's a relationship, or a short-term thing).
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Man got to man up, have confidence in themselves, be the guy women can lean on, and have his own space. Don't need to call the girl every 5mins. I do my own thing and sometimes even I saw a girl message me, I ingore it because I am enjoying what I am doing now. If they want a response now they will call, message means they don't really care when you get back to them. So why get back right away? It only shows you have nothing better to do.
Seeing a girl now and I never ever text her back right away. I think one time I left my phone at home while I went out. Came home and saw tons of message and just let her know I left my phone charging and I am going to sleep. Got her more interested as to what I did last night.
There is a line between being an asshole and being confidence. Girls wants to date guys with confidence but not assholes. I think too many man are being the girl bitch and hoping this will get the girl. You can be nice but make your intentions clear and never ever lose yourself. I used to be the nice guy and that lead me nowhere, now I make my intentions clear and if the girl saids no, move on.