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Originally Posted by Jonydakiller
I'm glad you came through at the end murd0c, but don't be surprised if you see something similar @ your new job, you just have to learn to find a way to tackle it when you see it instead of letting it slide because things will only going for worse.
I can almost guarantee this so called "bullying" or "joking around" exist in every office, and there is nothing you can do about it. I worked at an office before, and i been on both ends of the stick, getting laughed at or laughing at people due to their race, physical appearance etc.
You somehow have to manage to stay on the "top" of all things, if somebody start circulating an email or flyer about somebody at the office, join the conversation, jump onto the bandwagon and say something harsh but that can also falls under "joking around", at least people working around you will realize you can also attack instead of sitting there getting laugh at.
I have to admit, I enjoy making fun of people due to their race, physical appearance etc sometimes, and thats how i stay on the top. Like currently we have a coworker from Africa, we were sitting with bunch of people at starbucks and he chose a seat with the shade, so i just said, you don't need shade, he asked me why, and i simply told him because you are black and you won't get a sun burn! Some people can actually take this to HR for discrimination at work place and I will be in trouble, but if you have that some sort of mutual understanding with everyone at @ workplace, ppl say things about you they will just forget about it the next day, and why this crap exists, is because work is just too BORING and ppl is always trying to find something to entertain themselves, so next time join the bangwagon and start making fun of people! thats my advice! (within an acceptable limit )
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I hope this is a joke, cause if not you sound like a messed up person.
Work is boring unless people make fun of each other? LOLWUT.
Practical jokes are one thing, for example I have a little program which forces someones computer CD-Tray to open and close on a random interval. This makes everyone laugh, and as long as you don't drive someone up the wall with it, they always laugh after you tell them as well.
But just busting on someone for their Race, culture, or physical appearance because you are bored is really fucked up man.
EDIT: Like seriously, just this sentence:
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Originally Posted by Jonydakiller
I have to admit, I enjoy making fun of people due to their race, physical appearance etc sometimes, and thats how i stay on the top.
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Is like definition bullying.