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Originally Posted by trancehead
funny because i was just recommended by a female to read that book. she said it is a bible for helping her understand her relationship.
anyways, as "bitch boy" promoting as that book may be (i have not read it), i think the root of this problem is deeply ingrained in Western society. having said that, it is hard to pinpoint or even make comparisions to what a "non feminized" society would appear to operate like as we have been programmed in this fashion already.
a good analogy is: say you only have one native language (English). it is hard to understand/ make comparisions to the cultural context behind your actions, thoughts, speech since it is the only form of programming that you know. --but say you were to pick up another language from a vastly different culture (Japanese). you can now begin to understand the mode of thinking and why people of a different culture would behave/act/think in a different way.
There is a whole set of different underlying values that propagate to the visible surface. Think of past philosophers (eg Plato, Hobbs, Confuscious), Events (Vietnam War) and such...these all profoundly shape culture.
i may be wrong, but i think it is generally seen in Eastern european countries or even Japan where there is less or non Feminism.
Try living and experiencing the culture (you really need to understand the language. as language --> culture) to really be able to contrast and articulate the differences in say, a feminized culture
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don't know why some of you think is a feminize society. Woman still make less wages than men, majority of woman still don't have a life beside taking care of their family. Its still frown upon for woman to partake in a lot of thing, woman are still shun in a lot of jobs. woman still face a lot more domestic violence than man. Woman's desirable goes down with age yet man goes up. Its still a man's world no matter how you put it.
the only thing getting more feminize in this society is a portion of man. Stop blaming the society if you can't get girls. Imagine going through life as an ugly girl fat girls, no matter how hard you work in your life there will always be a portion of your life that sucks because your an ugly fat girl lol.
look at all many GUY billionaire that are living the baller lifestyle with beautiful woman by their side. Look how many of them are ugly, bald, fat and visually not very appealing
case close.