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Originally Posted by Ulic Qel-Droma
for those who have never met one (or both) of your parents... even if the stories of them were negative... don't you guys have some curiosity as to what they could be like? don't u guys have the urge to seek them out... even if it's just to take a look at them (without them knowing)?
or have you guys just completely decided that path is closed forever, and it's nothing but a faded memory?
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If the person's life is happy and going very well, why seek for the part they never had that may bring good or bad to them? IMO, don't fix anything that is not broken. They made it through their lives without that part, why not keep going without that part.
If that part comes looking for the person, be emotionally prepared for the day that part will be gone again.