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Sensitive area there.
Talk to the brother/friend and ask him how he would feel about it.
I know a few people who have been in the same shoes, and if you are truly a stand up guy that you paint yourself to be it can be done even if the relationship does not come to marriage etc.
A relationship like this is much like a camp sight, leave it better than the way you found it. If your a good guy and it does not work out then you should both be able to go your own ways in a mature manner and keep a friendship with her and her brother.
Its a risk with the friendship, but IF it worked out then that friend could be family and that would also be very cool.
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