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Originally Posted by El Bastardo
The following is a reply from the anonymous original poster
Thanks everyone for the replies and the lols so far. I'm well aware it's a stupid, delicate area.
To the post about our ages, we're in our mid 20's.
To the post about how close me and B are, he's almost like family. He comes to family parties, BBQ's, etc.
And that "fell in love" comment was just being cheeky.
I'm probably go about it along the lines of murd0c's advice. Just keep things really cool and somehow draw up another situation where I'll see her again and then determine whether or not it's worth asking about. If there might be something there, I'll venture a little deeper. If not, then I'll let it go.
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If you claim that B is indeed family, then he would surely approve of you going out with his sister, because you guys are family right? If he gets mad and disapproves, he may not be as close to you as you think, in his terms.
If B disapproves and as time goes by, you somehow become closer and falling even more for his sister, would you still stay away?
I would find a way to contact her, through facebook or whatever, just to keep in touch. If there really was a connection between you two, you don't want that to fade, and the culprit here is time.
Through countless times of "missed romance" (according to craiglist), I learn that life doesn't give second chances. By playing it cool, you are allowing fate to decide whether you two should "talk" again. Just go for it, if B gets mad, it won't be forever.
Bros will always be bros, no matter how hard they fight. If not, then they're not your bro. I don't see why he should interfere in two people having feelings for each other, they're feelings, not something people can just deny. That's like going out everyday, denying your feelings for everything (eating, talking, sitting, laughing) because someone will get mad.