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Originally Posted by jeedee
IMO its just not worth it...
lets say you guys start dating and it doesn't work out. What then?
Not only would it be awkward from then on but your friendship with your friend 'B' might be ruined
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ive first hand experience.
it doesnt end well.
friend had a gorgeous sister, we all went to highschool together. granted we weren't the bestest of friends, but me and him would go to parties together, and go for drinks together etc. then one night i ran into his sister at a pub. she sat with me and my coworkers, we got drunk, hooked up, then it turned into a regular thing and going on dates. every time id feel just a bit guilty for not telling him, and in the end, we had to split ways. me and her had to call it off shortly after. and there was no way to mend the friendship between me and him after he found out from the two of us. he considered me a backstabber and i just had to face the fact that i should've told him from the start, or at least told him i ran into his sister and how shes fun to hang around with, and bring the situation to him slowly.
dont do it unless your friend is cool with it. some guys wont be. like you said, you and your buddies are out at a pub for wing night, and 90% of guys know wing night = tell your buds about your sex life. odds are he wont want to hear how to finally did anal with her or jizzed on her face.