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It's her issue not yours, I don't think there is anything you can do to make her see it any other way. You have to just take it at face value and decide if this is something you can live with going forward.
I grew up in the same type of household except my mom had to work full time and do 100% of the cooking and cleaning. If my dad wants a cup of coffee he just snaps his fingers, it's fucked up but it's the way it's always been. Somehow my parents are still together 40+ years later.
My wife won't do what my mom does but she doesn't take it personal when my dad acts this way around her she laughs it off.
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The world ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It's a very mean and nasty place... and I donīt care how tough you are, it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently, if you let it. You, me or nobody, is gonna hit as hard as life. But ain't about how hard you hit... It's about how hard you can get hit, and keep moving forward... how much you can take, and keep moving forward. Thatīs how winning is done. Now, if you know what you worth, go out and get what you worth. - Rocky Balboa
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