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Old 09-28-2014, 07:56 PM   #1
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[Confidential] how do i initiate first contact after scarring the ex girlfriend

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So GF and I broke up. She is currently working abroad for a few months and will return soon.

So during this time, I fucked it all up as I simply kept pushing and pushing her. yelling and arguing over what is right for us. I've reached out to the wrong people just to see how she is thinking

Its gotten to a point where we are not in speaking terms. shes scarred by the situation.

I want to apologize, but she wont listen. so now im scared to even send an email apologizing.

I do not want this to end where we are not even speaking. so...how do i initiate this contact?

with that said, my instincts tell me there is another person involved. could be a fling. not sure, but one simply doesn't throw away 3 years. Before that gets too serious, i need some advice on how to have her maybe miss me a bit and at least be on speaking terms
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