Posted on behalf of a friend.
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Originally Posted by Mr.HappySilp
go to the police and file a report. They will have a nice chat with him and he won't bug you again. The only way he will stop is if the police is invole.
He should learn to respect you. When I broke up with my ex it was on good terms and we still hang out and chat. Actually we talk about our current gf/bfs it weird but it works lol. I guess you can say we have a really close relationship but feelings aren't there.
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You're fortunate to not have to deal with my kind of ex. Seems like you were probably friends before dating as well, or had mutual friends which helps. Whereas my case was not.
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Originally Posted by dhillon09
Why would anyone carry on with this behaviour?
He can't believe that you don't reciprocate his feelings, since he still feels the way he does. Words will not make him stop, so stop trying to reason with stupid. Get a new boyfriend, move on with your life. Your ex sounds like the type of guy to be immediately intimidated by any other guy ... so future BFs/relationships could alleviate the problem, though you shouldn't feel rushed into anything as rebound-relationships are typically shortlived anyhow
If you were friends with this guy, why would you encourage it or help him?
What would make you stop?
He needs to get laid. I am unsure of your age or anything else, but assuming you guys are young it's very possibly that you are the first girl to pay him any kind of attention / possibly the girl he lost his virginity to. If the latter is the case, good fucking luck. He will haunt you until he finds another girl to obsess over
As always, everyone's opinion would be much appreciated
If you really want to make a clean break from him, you might have to burn some bridges with some people you may otherwise like. The cliche phrase comes to mind: "The people in your life are like seasons, everything changes for a reason"
-- maybe you're growing up (again, don't know your age so take it w/ a grain of salt) and you're starting to realize the ramifications of adult problems, you can no longer be a social butterfly with a bajillion friends on your friendslist. Your time is precious, and the older you get the more you realize what a fleeting commodity it really is -- protect it. Do not allow people to have easy access to you, focus on yourself, make yourself better. If you must, delete everyone you don't talk to on a semi-regular basis off friendslists, change your cell phone number, burn bridges, etc.
#BCRDUKESFORPRESIDENT2016
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Both mid 20s. Reread some screenshots of his messages and they will make anyone cringe so hard. I've moved on already, but he doesn't seem like he wants to. He is pretty much having a conversation by himself and unfortunately you cannot block every single message on the many messaging apps/programs out there.
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Originally Posted by T4RAWR
In Canada it's called a "peace bond" (ccc. 810)
you can't just walk into a lawyers office and ask that a restraining order be placed on an individual.
the proper process is as follows:
1) you need to contact the police
2) the police will do an investigation
3) the police will forward an RTCC to Crown Counsel; in certain cases when there is a more serious nature they may bring the peace bond request directly to Crown to review immediately.
4) Crown Counsel will review said RTCC (if it wasnt brought over immediately).
5) they decide if the facts meet the standard for an s.810 peace bond to be laid
6) an information is sworn with the victim/complainant as well as the accused/defendant listed.
7) the peace bond becomes binding.
OP should start at step 1 of the process and see where it goes from there. given that TOS'd started this thread, the potential for it to be trolling is high. however, IF it really is someone requiring a peace bond against another individual they should contact the police right away. |
This isn't a troll thread. But thank you for the steps, I will look into it. It seems like this is a very small deal and I'm not sure a peace bond will work in the end.