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A BIG thing is closure.
You said you gave him back all his things, etc., etc.
And yes, you said:
"already told him I have no intentions of being friends with him".
I'm unsure if they were text messages, or softly saying to him, or what...
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Be more forceful.
Plant your feet and tell him exactly how you feel, his being "stalkerish" and weird, etc.
Tell him to GTFO and move on.
Tell him to stop being a whinny bitch and man up, and just move on.
Don't just suggest.
Forcefully enunciate it to him.
If needed, tell him to get a life and everybody should just move on.
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If this doesn't work, maybe a little covert operations?
If you have a good guy friend, ask him to pretend to be your new boyfriend.
Your ex will definitely see what is happening (from his stalker-ish actions) and then your ex MAY just give up.
Just my two cents.
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