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Old 11-12-2014, 08:42 AM   #18
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Originally Posted by bcrdukes View Post
I think OP should go to China.

He needs a lesson in being humbled so he'd smarten up. In your case, haymura, you came back knowing what it's like over there but to say that it was "the worst decision you ever made" I feel is a far cry. If you had just stayed here, you would have never known and now you can confidently say and move on with your life.

All too often, kids here grow up being comfortable and when a wrench is thrown their way, they give up on life rather than take on the problem head-on then post their stupid ramblings in the "Speak It Out" thread in the Relationships Forum. Fuck that shit.

In life, there are no such thing as poor decisions. Just uninformed ones.

well said and good point. I definitely would not have known how much i have it better here without going there in the first place. I actually agree with dukes here. I say OP should try it out and see if its something he will like or not. You dont really know something unless you give it a try. Its easy for us to throw suggestions without really knowing what the pros and cons are. Only way for OP to really find out is to experience it himself.
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