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Is this the first time this has happened to you? It's a pretty common thing, especially with out-of-towners. Feel lucky he respected you enough to tell you he wouldn't be seeing you again, sometimes they just disappear. Best to move on. It's pretty easy to fake a "real connection", or maybe he felt something but didn't feel it click in the bedroom. It's super easy to be duped by the smoke and mirrors when you're really into someone, though, and feel a connection when it's one-sided. Next time you meet a handsome out-of-town stranger, go on a few dates, make sure they're looking for a relationship, then sleep with them. 4-6 actual dates is a good number. Most guys won't stick around after 4 dates if they haven't gotten sex yet and aren't looking for a relationship...except for the really terrible ones who like a serious challenge.
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