[slingblade]

New girlfriend has been great. Beautiful, nice to talk to, similar interests, and crazy high sex drive. It's been a month of good times now. The only thing is... she is still not over the dude she was casually banging a few weeks before we met. She tells me she doesn't talk to him anymore but I see on Instagram she is all over every one of his pictures, even the recent ones. So I looked at his followers list and didn't see her name in the mix. Yup, I guess she regularly searches him up manually just to send him little online hints that she still likes him. I'm not sure what gets me more, the fact that she lies to me, or the fact that she still likes him. Trying real hard to look at this objectively... maybe she's afraid of conflict.. maybe its hard for her to let go.. Fuck it. Nothing's ever perfect and thats okay.

How should I handle this situation? If I bring it up, then I'm an overly possessive creep (which is true but I don't exactly want to show that lol). If I just ignore it, it just stops me from feeling intimate with her. Really hope I could get some input from you guys...this shit is bugging me a lot

EDIT: Wow. Rereading this shit was hard. Cringeworthy.. I guess I'm in love, because this is such a trivial thing to get worked up about.