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Originally Posted by dhillon09
Best thing to do? Ignore it.
If you're going to do anything, be prepared to commit yourself fully or you come off as weak. That weakness is not attractive -- you never want to make a girl think you need her more than she needs you -- especially within the first couple months
What do i mean about committing yourself fully?
Giving her passive aggressive remarks about the guy / bringing up the guy in the midst of a fight = weak = not fully committing to your decision.
If her actions with the other guy bothers you that much, tell her in an adult manner and tell her you don't want to talk to her while she's still got feelings for him. After about a week of no-contact she'll come running back to you ... or be back with the other guy.
tl;dr -- leave it as it is, or confront it head on
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Thanks man!! The road I've been taking has been just leaving it and looking past it. There's always this part of my brain that dwells on it every time I talk to her or see her, but no one ever said that relationships would be easy.
Thanks so much for the response. This shit was bugging me and I had to talk about it with someone, or else I would just lose sleep over it