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Originally Posted by Fafine
no point in arguing with your parents bra
just leave the house and let them calm down.
don't like it? move out. simple.
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Originally Posted by l2_narain
Time to move out. At this point you need to grow with new experiences and your folks need to as well. Long-term it will work out..
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I've been fully aware that moving out is really my only option of escaping the one single negative aspect of my current life, but if only it were that easy. Life away from home is heaven, life at home is always hell and it's quite literally the only source where negative things pop out from in my life.
Full-time school, student loans, barely working enough part-time hours to scrape by, doesn't exactly spell out "move out and independently support yourself for the rest of your life away from home cutting off all parental interactions in Vancouver"
I've been stuck in this never-ending pendulum of going back and forth between tolerating my mum's emotional instability and complete utter inability to compromise on anything, and wanting to just drop the fucking ball on everything and start over from scratch, meaning dropping school, moving out, getting a full-time job, just working and leading my own life that I want.
I don't have any friends close enough to me that would understand the current situation I'm in, only those who would sympathize but not truly try and lend a hand. Being Asian, any close Asian friends I have have parents that, after learning about my situation, would not want their kids be close with. Parents in general, when they hear about problem kids, even if they are able to lend a hand to help, they choose not to, I have firsthand experience and it's a very frustrating thing to deal with.
It's really the shittiest feeling in the world knowing that none of your actions are going to be appreciated in the house you live in by your parents, yet you still cling onto the hope that perhaps things will get better, when in fact nothing has improved over the last couple years and is only getting worse...