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Old 12-29-2014, 06:24 AM   #72
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Is good that your gf is able to wake up.

My sister just got marry over the weekend (woot). Her husband had a brother who is also marry "let's call her Bitch". Anyways Bitch never really like family gatherings or even be with anyone. Everytime we went out for dinner etc etc... she would come late (as in 30+ mins) and leave after 30mins or so.

During the wedding the planning she never help or anything but have agree to drive some relatives from the groom's side to the ceremory and the dinner. Anyways the night before the wedding she went crazy and just said she isn't driving anyone and she is only going to the dinner coz she hate to be around ppl and is for the baby. That really mess things up because now we we have no rides for some ppl. Ended up having one the friend to drive the relatives from the groom's side. All said and done.

When is time for dinner as usual she came 30mins late. While my sister and her newly husband was giving a speech she just came and walk straight pass them with a stroller. I was pretty chock so is the guest. During the brief stay she didn't eat anything and won't let anyone see or touch her baby (not even the grandparents of the baby). And she keep bitching at her husband how she didn't have a nice wedding (which is true when she was marry the only have a small dinner), how she have no jewelry, no nice wedding photos etc etc... just cause everyone at the head table unhappy. But she fail to realize she didn't put any effort into her OWN wedding, she have no plans, and she hate to be around ppl so why have a big wedding if you are going to grumpy during your own wedding.

Anyways I couldn't take it anymore so I mention that I have a gf who also happens to be from China (like she is) but my gf is ok with just a small wedding and she understand it is not the wedding or how much jewelry she is going to wear but rather she is happy that she gets to be with me. I also ask if she agrees or what's her though on marriage. She got piss and took the baby and left after a few mins of her being silent.

You can't change someone unless they are willing to change. But they have to WANT TO CHANGEfor him/herself and not for you because it will never work that way.

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