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Originally Posted by rzrshrp
Do you guys think it's bad to ignore a girl?
I'm 20 y/o now and long story short this girl I liked didn't really like me back, but appreciated the attention I gave her (i.e. didn't value my presence at all). But whenever she sees me she wants me to say hi to her (I can tell b/c she stares at me hoping I will say something) but never does it herself.
I ignored her completely yesterday when she passed by when I was standing with my friends, but my female friend said that was a mean thing to do to her. I feel bad now haha, do you guys really think it's bad that I ignored her?
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Originally Posted by hchang
^^Women are just attention whores.
They act like they don't like being stared at but deep down they enjoy the attention. The feeling of being "desired".
Don't think there's any way out of a friend zone but who knows... You ignoring her might make her low self esteem like you.
Treat em like dirt and they'll stick like mud
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Rzr, I suggest you read Neil Strauss' "The Game"... it's more of a story but interspersed are little tidbits of fact regarding picking up - and maintaining - female interest.
It's all based on "cat string" theory... dangle a string in front of a cat's face and just leave it there, the cat will play around for a bit but get bored. Dangle that same string and move it back and forth, around and around, just out of reach of that cat and it will be entertained for hours and hours. The same applies to women. If you give off the appearance of being 'too easy' she will lose interest really fast. If you make it a challenge for her - because women are extremely competitive, I argue more so than men - she will never stop trying.