Thread: Speak it Out
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Old 01-12-2015, 08:44 PM   #20195
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Originally Posted by J89 View Post
Hopefully some people can chime in, was debating this with a friend the other day as he went through a breakup not too long ago.

CAN people have on and off switches for emotions?

Like if your S.O says they love you and you can confirm it through mutual feelings but they can leave the relationship with minimal damage and just peace?

#coldheartedbitch or just a front?
yes some people have this switch.. i usually meet the 2 following types:

- people that don't give a damn or never did give a damn
- it was too much to handle so their mind just shuts down and nothing gets registered

usually when a girl (or anyone really) leaves a relationship with minimal damage.. it's usually because the thought has been on their mind for a while and they had plenty of time to mentally/emotionally prime themselves for it.. it's not coldheartedbitch or a front - it's called preparation
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