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Originally Posted by El Bastardo
The following is a submission from an anonymous Revscene member who requested a confidential post some time ago. Sorry to the OP. I've been busy striking oil, ranching cattle, and shooting pistols wildly into the air as we Texans do
My S.O. is always on their cell phone when we're together. (we live together so I can understand them wanting some time to do their own thing) but it's at the point where its up to 3 hours a night- When we're cuddling, laying in bed, watching a show, dinner, after sex etc. Its really frustrating being ignored for a phone and it gets really boring. I've tried a few different things but nothing seems to work...
First, I tried talking to them about it and they were really good for a few days but went right back to it.
I've even tried spending more time on my phone to show them what its like (but I get bored of my cell phone and its impossible to 'out-phone' them) this was clearly not the right way to handle it but I'm running out of options.
Does anyone have any advice, or any experience of their own with this kind of situation? Or am I being crazy and controlling? I told myself I want to be with someone I don't want to change a single thing about. And everything else in our relationship is really good.. so should I just let this go?
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How many S.O do you have?
With that said, there could only be two solutions.
1) You're boring and she finds her phone more entertaining. Spice things up.
2) Find entertainment of your own. Go hang out with friends on the weekend, find a hobby and focus solely on it. Cook a nice ass delicious dinner, but only for yourself. Don't know how to cook? Order something good and expensive for yourself. Jerk off in your room with the door open. Jerk off in front of her watching porn. Go on a trip with your friends. When you're out in public, don't hold hands, none of that shit, just go to your stores and shop for yourself.
Eventually she'll realize that she's not paying enough attention to you, since none of #2 crosses the line in a relationship that's enough to for her to break up.
If all else fail, maybe it's meant to be that she should just marry her phone and you're better off finding someone else who'll appreciate you as a person, rather than a presence.