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reads most threads with his pants around his ankles, especially in the Forced Induction forum.
Join Date: Mar 2004
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Never ever EVER LIVE with her/your parents! That's just asking for trouble. Say you two live with her parents and they see you two auguring, they will be on their daughter's side no matter who is right. Same with your parents. Overtime this will cause major issue and put a lot of pressure on your relationship with your gf. Beside do you really want parents seeing you around the house naked or having sex in the kitchen? You can't even have your own private time with your gf.
People are having kids at a later age or just not having kids at all. Is harsh but that's the reality. My sister is 30lish and just got marry. I think both my sister and her husband wants kids but reality is that it might be a hard. Having kids is not just pooing them out. You have take care of them, clothing, education, take time off work etc etc... that can really put a dent in your financial suitations since both of you isn't ready yet. I hate to say it but finances plays an important part if having kids or not.
Lastly if she keeps helping her parents financally then what will happen to you two future? I am not saying don't take care of them but maybe work out a number and have a chat with them about you guys suitation and how much you really can afford to give to them (I pretty much work that out with my parents and my gf). It might hurt them to or the talk might be awkward but this needs to be done if you want out of debt.
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