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Originally Posted by 6793026
sorry, there are a few things that are wrong
1) you can't always plan to have kids. It's not 100% guaranteed. Gotta work that shit out. You are dead on having kids, she better be on the mofo page. Don't give me the BS old age card shit. Try as hard as you can for few years before you run that shit out.
2) housing + living with family. that shit you gotta figure out. If she gets old and her parents really needs taking care of, you NEED to figure that stuff out before you get married.
talk about these two first, if it gets resolved, then you have a clear path ahead.
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Agree. Can't really plan to have kids. Some ppl keep trying but no luck while others don't want kids got unlucky and have several lol.
Even though I am Chinese I don't really like the fact that when your parents think you will take care of them when they are old (aka living you or expecting you to take care of them weather is to take them to hospital, give them money, hire a nurse tec etc....). Sure is great if your kids take care of you when you are old but don't expect it. My parents never expected us to live with them once we start our family in fact they want us out lol. I also hate the fact that her parents didn't plan anything when they retire. I mean what happen to putting money aside on your RRSP? What happen to save up when you are young so when you retire you have money to spend? Didn't her parents though about that?