sounds like a lot of unnecessary trouble to me
In my opinion you need to take care of yourself before you can start to carry someone else's baggage. With my most recent ex as much as I care about her and she cared about me I needed to get my shit together and establish myself. Its difficult wanting this and that for the both of you but neither will come with simply WANTING. Its easy right now since you're comfortable with this person but along the way you will find yourself miserable.