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Originally Posted by Mr.C
This concerns me more than the coke use. Sounds like emotional manipulation to me.
I'd be wary.
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aside from the coke use,
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Beyond that, post break-up, I saw a side of him I had never seen before- putting me down in any way possible - saying anything he knows that could hurt me. He also admitted that he did say those things on purpose because "i love you so much but you hurt me so bad". I dont want to hold this against him because I know he was really broken but it concerns me that he can be so emotionally hurtful, on purpose.
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this is reason enough to not want to be with him. Like Mr. C said, be wary of emotional manipulation and the potential for physical abuse. If he really wants to be with you, then knowing your feelings on drugs he would quit.
I'm not going to comment about use in itself but one of my good friends was a functioning addict for a few years, her boyf basically told her that either she stopped cold turkey or they would no longer be together. Her bestf happened to be a dealer so she had to basically stop hanging out with her and would never go out when she knew there was a chance of people indulging. So there's no excuse for him to take part if he says he really loves you and wants you in his life