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Originally Posted by etodac
I don't know why but I'm kind of scared about being with my boyfriend for possibly the next few years. I love him, I don't doubt that. I guess I'm fearing commitment? I haven't had many people in my life that I was like "yeah, I'll still be hanging out with them in a few years" except for my parents and closest friends. Understanding that I need to plan the next few years of my life and taking account that my boyfriend is in that plan too is kind of unsettling. Anyone else have these feelings? We've been dating just over a year and he is already having that mindset with his plans. But I'm just in a place where it's hard for me to plan my future, let alone including him in my plans too.
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In my opinion I would say go with the flow, there no point of worrying or planning if your not ready it just messes with your head and it makes you think of other things. when the time comes that's when you should worry. I would say the best thing is to have a quiet and nice dinner with him and talk things over. It's never healthy to keep all the questions inside you, it just hurts.