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Old 05-01-2015, 12:56 PM   #20668
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She had an emotional affair with a guy from her workplace while we were still together, and was intimate with him immediately following our breakup... 3 months later, he asks her to be his girlfriend but she tells him she doesn't know about that yet.

She comes back to me and says she still has feelings for me; I feel the same way, as much as it hurts. She's torn between me or him. I tell her it's either-or. If she pursues a relationship with this guy, I'd have to cut her from my life. Thing is, she wants me in her life and believes that we can work on being "just friends" while she courts another guy. I tell her it's impossible, given the circumstances.

Now she wants to hang out. I'm not even sure what to do.
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