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Originally Posted by pinn3r
She had an emotional affair with a guy from her workplace while we were still together, and was intimate with him immediately following our breakup... 3 months later, he asks her to be his girlfriend but she tells him she doesn't know about that yet.
She comes back to me and says she still has feelings for me; I feel the same way, as much as it hurts. She's torn between me or him. I tell her it's either-or. If she pursues a relationship with this guy, I'd have to cut her from my life. Thing is, she wants me in her life and believes that we can work on being "just friends" while she courts another guy. I tell her it's impossible, given the circumstances.
Now she wants to hang out. I'm not even sure what to do.
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If she really did love you, she would of never had an emotional affair with the other guy.
Sounds like she wants you as a back up in case the other guy doesn't live up to her expectation. You deserve better then that.
move on, she is too far gone.
Things will never be the same.
Trust me
This is coming from a guy that Waited for his First Year Uni crush for 5 years cuz she "Wasn't sure" how she felt about us, and she "wasn't ready"
then after 5 years he finds out she was seeing other people during this time.
and he wasn't really as "Special" as he originally thought
Wasted 5 years Romantizing about the entire thing.
Now I'm 32, fat and bald.
Gonna die alone (saving for a GT3 RS)