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Originally Posted by pinn3r
She had an emotional affair with a guy from her workplace while we were still together, and was intimate with him immediately following our breakup... 3 months later, he asks her to be his girlfriend but she tells him she doesn't know about that yet.
She comes back to me and says she still has feelings for me; I feel the same way, as much as it hurts. She's torn between me or him. I tell her it's either-or. If she pursues a relationship with this guy, I'd have to cut her from my life. Thing is, she wants me in her life and believes that we can work on being "just friends" while she courts another guy. I tell her it's impossible, given the circumstances.
Now she wants to hang out. I'm not even sure what to do.
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YOU WILL NEVER EVER WIN in this situation. Back of your mind you'll still doubt yourself... what if she gets hit on again etc.
I can tell you this. IF you leave now, you can be
and feel like a boss REJECTING her every single time she wants to hang out.
At the back of her mind she'll have the "he's the one that I let go and got away"
I did it to 2 bitches back in the day, never regretted it and boy it feels GOOD! Both of them begged me to come back .....
Continue to cry or be a boss, which one do you want to be.